This story has been told by judges and family division masters in Montgomery County many times but it bears repeating. A couple stands before the judge in a highly disputed child custody case. The judge turns to the mother and says, “Ma’am, do you love your child?” To which she replies, “Of course I do!” He then turns to the father and asks the same question. “But of course I love my child.” The judge turns to them both and says sternly, “Well I do not. Why in the world you would want someone like me making decisions for you and your child is beyond me. Now go outside and try to work this out between you like adults and parents or else I am going to make a decision that I guarantee you neither will be happy with.”
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Are You Really in Good Hands with Your Insurance Company?
For sure, car insurance and car insurance companies are a necessary evil. You would be foolish, and in this state illegal, to operate a motor vehicle without insurance. In the event of an accident, and in particular a major accident, you need the insurance coverage to pay for your property damage to your car and to compensate you for your injuries and lost time from work. But make no mistake about it, insurance companies exist to make money, a profit. And the primary way of doing so is to take in premiums and limit how much they have to pay out. This means that at the very time you need them, you may find yourself fighting with them to get what you deserve.
I recently had a client who was struck by another driver. It was very clear that the other driver was responsible. But a few days after the accident, the adverse driver’s insurance company sent my client a very small check for what she understood was to replace her child’s car seat. On the bottom of the check they included the phrase “Payment in Full for Bodily Injury Claim”. Now, my client had not even filed a bodily injury claim at that point. Nevertheless, when she did hire an attorney to file such a claim, the insurance company pointed to that first check and told her that in cashing the check she was relinquishing all further claims. In other words, they were trying to take advantage of her. Unfortunately, her first lawyer did not understand this and dropped the case. I was able to restart the claim and succeeded in getting her the full value of her claim.
So the next time you hear you are in good hands with…, or we’re on your side…, remember, they are in the business of making money. Hopefully your interests will align with theirs and everyone will be happy. If not, that’s when you need an attorney.
Should Maryland Recognize Out-of-State Same Sex Marriages?
The question is obviously highly political. But it is about to come to a head here in Maryland as we await a legal opinion from Attorney General Doug Gansler as to whether or not under Maryland law same sex marriages that are legal in other states can be recognized here in Maryland.
Same sex marriages themselves are not permitted in Maryland but are in several other states (currently Massachusetts, Connecticut, Iowa, Vermont, and Maine, as well as the roughly 18,000 same-sex marriages that are legally recognized in California). Governor Martin O’Malley (D) is apparently leaning towards recognizing such marriages. The District of Columbia already recognizes out-of-state same sex marriages while Virginia has yet to weigh in on the issue.
Regardless of how you feel personally, it is a fascinating legal argument full of due process and equal protection issues as well as the obvious argument concerning full faith and credit.
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Can I Change My Name Back in My Divorce?
Frequently clients ask if they can change their name back to their maiden name or even that of a previous marriage when they get divorced. The short answer is most likely yes. Under the Family Law article of the Maryland Code §7-105, if you are seeking a divorce you may change your name back to either your name given at birth or any previous former name as long as 1) the party took the name on in marriage and no longer wants to use it; 2) the party asks for the name change; and 3) the purpose of the name change is not for illegal, fraudulent or immoral purposes. This means that the name you are changing must have been taken on by the marriage you now seek to dissolve. Further, you (or your lawyer) must ask the court to change your name in your Complaint for Absolute Divorce – which is the document that initiates the divorce action. And finally, you must certify to the court, usually through your testimony, that your reason for changing your name is not for purposes of committing an illegal act, or fraud, or for immoral purposes. Although changing one’s name during a divorce is relatively uncomplicated, it is often one aspect of the divorce that carries a lot of emotional baggage.
For more information on changing your name at the time of your divorce, contact a qualified family law attorney. If you need help finding one, the local county bar association can assist you.
Two Powerful Women
I am struck by the fact that the two most recent appointments to the judicial bench, at least to me and my little practice, have been powerful women. At the national level, Judge Sonia Sotomayor will be sworn in this Saturday as the Supreme Court’s 111th justice, third woman and first nominee by a Democrat in 15 years. I was not practicing law when the previous two women were appointed to the Supreme Court so it has been interesting for me now to follow the nomination and confirmation of Judge Sotomayor. More locally, Judge Cynthia (Cindy) Callahan was sworn in on June 29th as the newest member of the bench of the Montgomery County Circuit Court.
For Judge Sotomayor, it was Princeton, Yale, NY County District Attorney’s office, private civil practice, informal solo practice, lots of public service, and then the federal bench. Judge Callahan started at St. Mary’s College, Columbus School of Law Catholic University (my alma mater), private practice, partner in ten years, solo practice, managing partner for Dragga, Callahan, Hannon, Hessler & Wills, LLP, and lots of public service.
Two very powerful women. Two very interesting careers. Two intriguing stories to follow…
When Will I Become Jaded?
I’m sure it will come at some point. Listening to all of my esteemed colleagues, who have been practicing far longer than I have, moan and groan about the system and about judges in particular, makes me wonder when I will become equally jaded. Because to date, I have been remarkably surprised about how accommodating the court has been towards me and my clients. There have been times when my clients have been late for court, or unprepared, or disrespectful (despite my efforts to make sure they are not) and still the court affords them a level of dignity that perhaps some might not think they deserve. And certainly I have demonstrated my ignorance on more than one occasion before the court only to have most judges take the time to explain to me the error of my ways.
I think bottom line, if you are polite and respectful to the court, it returns the favor. It only stands to reason that that would be the case. I have only really had a problem with two judges. One who ruled against me because he was mad at my boss (only to be overturned on appeal) and one who I think made an error regarding evidence (see my earlier post). But in general, my experience has been a good one marked by respect and civility. Maybe things will change, maybe I’ll become more jaded and cynical at some point. But I am not there, yet…
Should You Settle Your Case?
Like most legal questions, the answer is generally it depends. My practice concentrates on two primary areas of law: family law (divorces, child custody) and personal injury law (automobile accidents, slip & falls). Settling the case means different things in each discipline but generally it refers to resolving the issue without have the court make the ultimate decision. The court may help along the way by steering the parties to mediation or other forms of alternative dispute resolution. But if the parties can reach an agreement without the judge having to issue a binding court order, then it is usually in their best interests to do so.
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Twittering Lawyers
Jeff Richardson publishes a great blog on the intersection of two of my favorite themes: the iPhone and lawyering. While I disagree with his position on the use of Twitter by attorneys, it is easy to understand why he feels that way. One can easily be distracted by the pull of these social networks. But I think the potential can outweigh the downside if used properly and judiciously. Jeff’s most recent post also references a review of all of the current Twitter platforms for the iPhone. Check it out!
In Case of an Accident – Preserve Your Personal Injury Case
There are lots of list available on the internet about what to do in case of an accident. And in fact, there are lists of what not to do. Anthony Castelli presents such a short, but informative list, on his website. Here is my take on things you should do to preserve the potential of your personal injury case. Remember, not all accidents result in personal injury and not all personal injuries end up in a lawsuit. But… if they do, you want to make sure you do the following:
- Check on you, your passengers, the other driver(s), and their passengers, to make sure everyone is all right.
- Call 911 for police and/or emergency medical personnel.
- Secure the scene by putting out flares or other visual markers to make sure you are safe until the police and/or emergency personnel arrive.
Building a Practice: How to Get and Keep Clients
I was fortunate to be asked to make the above titled presentation at the Maryland State Bar Association’s “Hanging Out A Shingle” conference at the Columbia Hilton yesterday. When Pat Yevic’s asked me if I would be interested I assumed that I would be buried somewhere in the program. But lo and behold it was the first presentation of the morning before a full house of 75 attorneys. I tried to compare and contrast “old school” marketing techniques with new opportunities presented by social media and other web 2.0 platforms. Judging by the responses it went well. If you would like a copy of the presentation just drop me a note. I am trying to figure out how to post it to my blog here or on FB or somewhere else. So if you know how to do that to please tell me.